Receiving deployment orders is overwhelming, raising the terrifying question for military parents in Overland Park: “What happens to my children while I am gone?” The fear of losing custody due to an extended absence is a genuine concern, but Kansas law provides specific protections.
At Barnds Law LLC, we have over 60 years of combined legal experience, focusing on minimizing the stress and anxiety for clients dealing with legal matters. If you are a service member in Johnson County facing deployment, here is how Kansas law protects your parental rights.
Kansas Law: Deployment Is Not a Permanent Change
The primary concern for service members is that deployment will be used against them in court to award the co-parent permanent, full custody. Kansas law (K.S.A. 23-3217) explicitly prohibits this: a parent’s deployment, mobilization, or temporary duty is not, by itself, a “material change in circumstances” that warrants a permanent custody modification.
The court may issue a temporary order for the child’s care while you are away. This order is strictly temporary, as the law views your absence as an act of service, not abandonment. Upon your return, the goal is generally to revert to the original custody arrangement.
Mandatory Military Provisions in Parenting Plans
If divorced military parents in Kansas have a parenting plan, [K.S.A. 23-3213] mandates that it must include specific provisions for deployment, mobilization, or temporary duty. This allows terms like decision-making authority, child residence, leave visitation costs, and communication schedules to be negotiated proactively. If your current plan lacks these details, it should be reviewed before deployment orders are issued.
Delegating Your Parenting Time to Family Members78
One of the most valuable protections in Kansas law is the ability to “delegate” your parenting time. You might have a new spouse (a stepparent to the child) or grandparents in Johnson County who play a significant role in your child’s life. You naturally want them to remain involved while you are overseas.
K.S.A. 23-3217 allows the court to let a family member with a “close and substantial relationship” to the child exercise the parenting time in your place. This is not automatic. The court must find that this delegation is in the child’s best interests. Having a skilled attorney advocate for this delegation can ensure your side of the family stays connected to your child, maintaining that vital sense of continuity until you return.
Maintaining the Bond: Virtual Visitation Requirements
Technological advances have changed how deployed parents stay in touch. Kansas law has caught up with this reality. The statutes require the non-deploying parent to facilitate reasonable opportunities for telephonic and electronic mail contact.
In modern parenting plans, this is specified further. We ensure that court orders include provisions for video calls (such as FaceTime, Zoom, or Skype) at specific times. This prevents the other parent from blocking communication or claiming “it’s not a good time” whenever you try to call from a different time zone.
Expedited Hearings and The SCRA
For short-notice deployments, Kansas law (K.S.A. 23-3217(g)) allows for an expedited hearing to secure a custody order before you leave, as court timelines can be slow. If legal action is initiated against you while deployed, the Servicemembers Civil Relief Act (SCRA), 50 U.S.C. §§ 3901 et seq. (specifically § 3932), allows us to request a “stay” of proceedings, pausing the case until you can return to defend your rights and preventing a default judgment.
Reinstating Custody When You Return to Overland Park
The reunion with your child is the moment you’ve been waiting for during the entire deployment. Legally, this is also a critical time.
Upon your return, the temporary custody order does not dissolve instantly without procedure. You must file a motion to reinstate the original order. K.S.A. 23-3217(d) mandates that the court set a hearing on this matter within 30 days of your motion.
Crucially, the law shifts the burden of proof. It is up to the non-deploying parent to prove that reinstating the original custody agreement is no longer in the child’s best interests. If they cannot prove that, the court should revert to the pre-deployment plan. This statutory preference is a powerful tool we use to help you regain your parenting time.
How Barnds Law LLC Helps Military Families
Military family law involves a complex intersection of Kansas state statutes and federal protections. Missing a deadline or failing to file the correct motion before you deploy can cause headaches that last for years.
At Barnds Law LLC, we understand that clients seeking our help are already overwhelmed with stress and anxiety from life’s complications. This is why one of our primary goals is to find ways to minimize the stress and anxiety that come with dealing with a legal matter. We have over 60 years of legal practice under our roof and provide our clients with the best possible representation for their unique cases.
Whether you are stationed here in Kansas or are an Overland Park resident deployed overseas, we can handle the legal heavy lifting so you can focus on your mission and your family.
Do not leave your parental rights to chance. Call us today at 913-514-0909 or online to schedule a consultation.
